Friday, October 22, 2010

I was told there would be no math

Most of the time Big Don wants more when it comes to numbers.  More trucks at the warehouse, more dollars in the bank, more weeks of vacation with his family, and mostly more cases of Bud onto the trucks and into the stores.  He has become very adept at addition and multiplication, so good he almost forgot how to subtract and divide, until this pesky cancer came along.  Now less is better.

Less complications, less fatigue, less nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, LESS CANCER.  Well this week brought us another less that we can partially celebrate.  The tumor marker that we have been watching has fallen again and that is some subtraction that even Big Don will do.  It started out at 2800, was at 1300 after three weeks of chemo, and is now at 600 after six weeks of chemo.  We of course will temper our enthusiasm, we haven't even gotten to the seventh inning stretch yet, but good news deserves a reward, so Big Don's reward was Candy Cane. 

Of course Candy is our family dog, they bought her for me six months before I left for college, nice gift I guess.  Ten years later she has become mom and dad's dog.  He likes to give Candy a hard time but we all know that Big Don is too sensitive to do anything but love that old dog.   Thanks to some high temperatures in Phoenix, a mean landlord in Missoula,  and too long of a run from Montana to Arizona Candy has been staying with some great friends up in Whitefish.  But this week she came with Mary to Phoenix to stay with mom and dad.  You can be sure she will stand guard and join right along in the fight with Big Don, after all she is a Dulle. 

Despite some boredom Big Don really is doing good.  They moved into a condo near the campus of ASU, they say they wanted to let the Kirk's have their house back, but I'm pretty sure it is so dad can look at the coeds over at the college.  I do know that I'll be visiting more often.  There certainly is not enough thanks to their previous landlords.  We all say we would do anything for the people we love, but I'm not so sure everyone would welcome some guy losing all his body hair and spending most of his time in the bathroom into their guest house, so thank you so much to the Kirk family.  Big Don is still medium sized as he is the same weight he was when he started chemo and that is a big plus.  He will have two more sessions of chemo followed by a CAT scan to evaluate the tumor.  Again it will be anxious moments but at least we have the ASU girls now. 

As the boredom and dog days set in I can tell you without question that the only way that Big Don is getting through this is from the daily emails, phone calls, blog comments, and love he is getting from all around the country filled with his friends and family.  In medicine I unfortunately see a lot of people that get sick and don't have anyone to turn to.  Big Don is a lucky guy, sure he has cancer, but how many of us truly get to see how many people care about us and have our backs.  So as we subtract all of the cancer, Big Don is sitting on the balcony smiling, but still adding up cases of Bud.  So once again we have one for him (man if this tumor marker keeps going down I'm gonna become an alcoholic).

14 comments:

  1. That's great news! Keep up the good work! We're rooting for you in St. Louis...
    Love, Corrie, Chuck,& Adriana

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  2. Everyone from the family at the Great Northern Bar is thinking of you and saying many prayers!

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  3. Loving you guys from Las Vegas! We will keep praying for more good news!!

    Love, Ruthie, Cliff, and Baby Girl Schlattmann

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  4. Great News! Thinking of the Dulle family here in Boston. Keep up the fight Uncle Don!
    Love, Suzie and Terry

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  5. Good news! Keep fighting as our thoughts and prayers are with you!
    Love, Chase, Liz, and Graham

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  6. Great news that the cancer markers have dropped so much. I look forward to hearing how the cat scan goes, you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. The blog is great and I like being able to read it and catch up with your progress, keep fighting hard.
    Katherine Lee

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  7. Way to go Don. We know how important it is for those markers to go down. Keep up the C-fight. Our love and prayers, Martha and Dennis

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  8. That is wonderful news!! Thinking of and praying for the entire Dulle family. Thank you for the updates. Keep up the fight!

    Yvonne

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  9. Donnie, Kay & family,
    So sorry to hear about the battle you are facing, and about your dad's ill health while visiting you, but glad he is doing better & glad to hear you are putting up a good fight. Just wanted to pass on love and prayers from the "Napoli" side of your family. You are one lucky guy to have all the wonderful support of so many friends and family - you WILL pull through this Donnie if for no other reason just to prove the medical field wrong! That's just the "determination" and courage you inherited from being Italian!! I know my dad (your Uncle Vito) was one strong-minded person who always taught us to handle any problems by "grabbing the bull by the horns" so to speak and overcome any obstacles, and that sounds like exactly what you are doing!! Loving these blog updates (especially the one about the casino trip!) Your son is becoming one heckuva great writer by the way! Hang in there cuz - you have a lot of people pulling for you! The Dulles certainly have gone through enough already, and it’s time to turn over a new leaf. We are praying for you and will continue to follow these blogs while waiting to hear that you have won this fight and kicked Cancer’s butt! Love ya, from your cousins Mary, Kathy, Linda and Barb (and our families) and your Aunt Penny

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  10. Great News!! The boys and I pray every nightl!! We are thinking about you guys!!!

    Love,
    Laura, Ryan, Sam, and Teddy

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  11. Glad to hear the so good news. Donnie - you have a wonderful family. Thank you again for the blog. I miss you and your smile.

    Love,
    Craig

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  12. We are so happy that the news is good! Keep up the fight!! We are thinking of you in AZ for lots of reasons -- one of which is that the weather in WF is approaching the 7 months of clouds and cold!! Enjoy the sunshine for all of us!! As for the ASU coeds, I'm pretty sure Jim, Matt & Cody would have a Bud Light on the porch with you and enjoy the view!! Love and Prayers! The Martinsons

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  13. Don,I am so thankful in the Lord for the direction you have taken. My family will continue to pray and have you in our thoughts. It is a true testimony of faith. Ray Queen

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  14. All your CBC Classmates are thinking of you Don. The guys are passing the word and you should be hearing from everyone soon

    Dan Wienstroer

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